A Mother's Life

During this last week, it has been impossible not to be besieged by reminders, and sales pitches, that this Sunday marks Mother's Day.  No doubt, florists, greeting cards and cell phone minutes will all see a spike as people everywhere pay well-deserved honor to their Moms.  I, too, have been an enthusiastic participant, as I have been blessed with a wonderful mom, stepmom and mother-in-law to celebrate.  From these three women, I have witnessed strength, courage, generosity and love for family that has served as a stable force for husbands, children, grandchildren and friendships over so many years.

As a mom of two grown girls and two stepchildren myself, I have often drawn on wisdom from other mothers around me, and more often than not, coupled that with pure gut instinct.  I've made mistakes along the way, wish I could have had some "do-overs," but overall am both proud and mystified as to how well the kids have turned out and of the caring people they've become.  At the young age of twenty, holding my first daughter in my arms and looking into her brown eyes for the first time, I knew I was changed forever.  There was never a doubt of what I was put on this earth to do, or on what my future decisions would be centered.  And when her sister arrived a mere 13 months later, that sense of responsibility and commitment didn't simply double, it was exponential.

So, although I'm thankful for the idea behind Mother's Day, I've realized for myself that it is a Mother's Life.  It's in the fabric of who I am, as both a daughter and a mother.  And for those who have lost their mothers, the thoughts and respect to their moms far outreach the boundaries of a single day also.  Whatever the circumstance you find yourself in, as a mom, child, grandmother, grandchild, I hope you can take a quiet moment daily to be inspired and thankful to your moms for the life you've been given.  That you are here, living your life to the fullest, and caring for those around you is the best reverence one can give.  I know how very thankful I am for mine.

I love you Mom.